Hey coach,

Let’s pause for just a moment. Not as someone who has to show up strong, polished, or “called enough”—but as a human who’s quietly wondering, “Who do I think I am to lead anyone?” Sound familiar?

If you’ve been battling imposter syndrome, I want you to know: you’re not alone, and you’re not disqualified. As your coach—and your friend—let me walk with you through a few steps that can help you quiet the inner critic and step forward in truth.

1. Name It to Dismantle It

Imposter syndrome thrives in silence. Its power is often rooted in what goes unspoken. So let’s bring it into the light. Be honest with yourself: what fear is whispering beneath the surface? What are you afraid might be true?

We say it all the time around here—there’s no such thing as a fearless leader. But there is such a thing as a brave one. So name the fear. And by naming it, begin to loosen its grip.

2. Speak Life Over Yourself

You already know the power of words—especially as a coach & leader, So take a moment and turn that skill inward. What would you say to someone you love if they told you what you’re thinking about yourself right now?

Answer your inner critic the way you would encourage them: with kindness, with truth, and with grace. Call yourself back to what’s true and plant your feet on the promises of God for you!

3. Detach Performance from Value

One of the most powerful mindset shifts you can make is this: separate your worth from your work. You are not the sum of your outcomes. You are not only valuable when you’re productive.

Struggle doesn’t disqualify you—it just means you’re human. And your humanity is not a liability to the Kingdom. Your impact isn’t built on perfection; it’s anchored in your obedience.

4. Recognize the Cost of Shrinking

Let’s get really honest here—shrinking might feel like safety, but it robs the world of what God placed inside you. Think about the ripple effect: what is playing small costing you? Who misses out when you mute your voice? 

When you connect your internal struggle to your external assignment, revelation takes place. And when you see the cost of shrinking, boldness becomes an act of stewardship—not self-promotion.

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Do you know what fights imposter syndrome best? Humility and action. Not hustle. But a holy combination of humility + Kingdom obedience. The kind that says: “I’m a much-loved child of God, ready to use my gifts. I don’t have to have it all figured out—I just need to take the next step with Him.”

So if your heart is asking today, “Who do I think I am?”—hear the voice of your Father answer clearly:

“You are Mine.”

Let’s keep going, I’m on your team forever!